A Reputable Journal

Every Spring we arrive back in the midwest and say that we have to play more golf this summer to keep our games sharp. In the desert we play several times a week, but in past summers we have maybe only played several times. This year it will be different.

We got underway in good style today with a round at Keller in St. Paul.

The downside to playing more golf is that I think I’m not going to be happy using my really really old clubs that I leave here. It may require some shopping. I’ve always wanted to go and get fit for a set of clubs, so this may be my chance. It may also signal that we should bring our clubs with us when we migrate.

Giraffes eating at sunset

Loved the birds in the trees

Seriously, its like they trained them to pose this way!

In the tunnel with Jane

So cool.

I can’t imagine what it cost them to put this together, but it was really great.

Despite all of the horrors happening to the economy around the world right now, the random layoffs, outlawing fluoride in municipal water systems…. of it was a welcome change to just smile and enjoy and take it all in for a couple of hours. We gotta stay positive and find reasons to continue on and find happiness.

It has been a lot of years since I have been to a Styx concert, over 40 to be somewhat vague about just how long. Back then it was the first big arena concert that Jane and I attended together at the Saint Paul Civic Center. Last night we were at the Agua Cliente casino in Rancho Mirage. Most of the people were our age so it had probably been a while for them as well.

As I sat there listening to some of the lyrics they really connected with me and our time, probably much more than they did in the early 80’s! From Rockin' the Paradise

What you doin' tonight? Well have you heard that the world’s gone crazy? Young Americans, listen when I say There’s people puttin' us down I know they’re sayin' that we’ve gone lazy To tell you the truth, we’ve all seen better days

Don’t need no fast buck lame duck profits for fun Quick trick plans, take the money and run We need long-term, slow burn, gettin' it done And some straight talkin', hard workin' son of a gun

Come on and take pride, be wise spottin' the fools Big shots, crackpots bendin' the rules A fair shot here for me and for you Knowin' that we can’t lose

If they had written this today I would easily think they are talking about our current administration.

I would also add that these lyrics from “The Best of Times” kind of express my day to day frustrations:

The headlines read, “These are the worst of times” I do believe it’s true I feel so helpless like a boat against the tide I wish the summer winds could bring back paradise But I know, if the world turned upside down Baby, I know you’d always be around, my my

A hole in one gets a lot of kudos and admittedly I’ve never had one. But today feels even better to me because over the course of four hours I played well, not just one lucky shot. So yes, I’m bragging because I shot my first ever 18 hole round under par. A score of 71. Par is 72.

Three birdies, two bogies and the rest pars. My partner, Yaz, also had an amazing round of 78. We ended up winning Today’s Men’s club event, and I won a skin for a birdie on hole 12, a hole that I almost never even par! It was a tap in after I hit my heaven wood to about 10 inches from the pin.

But maybe even more important than the score was that I played with three other guys who were so nice, and gracious! It was really a great day all around. Thanks Yaz, Art, and Vic!! Yaz was a great partner who covered every mistake. And Art and Vic are just great people.

Friday night was happy hour followed by game night at the clubhouse. At happy hour I noticed that Pedro our longtime server was no longer wearing a name tag that read “Pedro” but instead read “Bruce” It immediately caught my attention as both our daughter and daughter-in-law had commented on our family message stream earlier in the day that they had had meetings about their rights if ICE were to raid their workplace!!!  Both said something like “I never thought I’d live in a world like this.” Neither did I!

When I asked Pedro about it, he looked a bit sheepish, thanked me, and said something like, “this name is probably better now.”  The reactions of people I thought were my friends were just to shrug their shoulders as if “too bad for him.” or “I guess that is his choice.” A couple were incensed, but not in a way that made me feel like they really understood the underlying issue!   It really took all I had to even stay for games after that.  I slammed my fist on the table and explained why I thought this was so wrong but I got no response, blank stares, as if I was worried about nothing!!!

This is not nothing! this is appeasement in the 21st century! This is what prime minister Chamberlain did in the prelude to World War II. We cannot appease Trump, or we will all lose our rights!!

In case you do not get it, the point of my post is this: We have millions of people in this country who pick our vegetables, serve our food, take care of our yards, and do hundreds of other jobs that “regular” Americans will not do. Yet, we rely on their work. Let’s not demonize them but rather understand them! Appreciate them!

Please write your congressperson or governor or senator and let them know how you feel!! I know the majority of us want justice but we need to make our voices heard!

Please note that I have changed the names, of servers and others to protect them!

Brad

In the era that started this week, I just want to say that I think it is especially important to express gratitude and to appreciate the people who help us out in our day to day life.

Although there is a lot I am worried about in this post-election season, I’m focusing on the good today. I’m here in the beautiful Coachella Valley for the winter, playing golf in the morning, playing games and having Thanksgiving dinner with friends. Working it all off with some pickleball in the evening.

We have an amazing daughter and son, who married other amazing people. They are all making the world a better place in their own way. We have two grandchildren who are precocious, loving, and thoughtful, yet they are only 2 and 4 years old.

I have a wonderful wife who has somehow loved me for more than 66.66% of my life! I’ve had more than my share of successful careers, and now I get to work on a project that I love, that helps students who need it most, (Runestone Academy) and I get to do it on my own schedule, when I’m not too busy doing other things I love (see above). In short, I have a lot to be thankful for!